By Julie G, Suzie M, and Ajay S
Wearing a hijab, or doing any kind of covering, makes Muslim women identifiable on a purely visual basis. The hijab is a visible symbol of religion and can therefore make Muslim women who wear it quite easy to identify as Muslim. This visibility has translated to a lot of attention to and discussion of the various ways in which women cover in both the political and cultural realms. In some parts of Europe, some forms of covering have be subject to legislation (where often the cited justification is security). In France, the Burkini (Burka swimsuit) and the Burka have been banned in public; also, headscarves and other “conspicuous” religious symbols have been banned at state schools (BBC 2014). The full-face veil has been banned in Belgium and Italy (BBC 2014). Russia has gone as far as to institute a ban on hijabs (BBC 2014). Many of these laws have faced backlash on the basis of religious freedom but have been upheld (BBC 2014) Many anti-covering measures have also been justified by the notion that many Muslim women are forced to cover. The hijab, and other forms of covering, are employed in the construct of Muslim women as oppressed. In many of the instances I have discussed, Muslim women could be considered to be oppressed by the governments who are creating legislation to prevent them from wearing garments that follow their religious beliefs. However, there are cases in which the opposite is true. In Iran, there is a law that makes it compulsory for all women in the country to cover and there are a variety of punishments that go with breaking this law (Cook 2016). Lately, this case has been receiving some media attention due to a campaign by many Iranian men to abolish the law in which they are donning hijabs in protest (Cook 2016). In this instance, the focus seems to be on the importance of the ability of Muslim women to choose whether they cover or not, instead of being about the actual covering itself (Cook 2016). Legislating the various forms of covering takes away from the agency of Muslim women because it is no longer them who decides what they wear. Trying to prevent something that you think is oppressive by stopping them from wearing something is oppressive in itself. The hijab is one of the symbols used in the debate regarding the agency of Muslim women between Islamophobes and those who disagree with them.
On the other hand, there have been legislative steps and media coverage that are more towards a pluralist attitude regarding Muslim coverings in some areas. For example, the hijab is now an optional part of the Police Scotland uniform (Press Association 2016). Recent years have also seen many firsts for hijabi women; Noor Tagouri was the first Muslim woman to appear in Playboy wearing a hijab, Mariah Idrissi was the first woman to appear in a hijab in an H&M advertisement, and Ibtihaj Muhammad was the first American woman to compete in a hijab at the olympics (Howard 2016; Shulka 2016). That being said, when thinking about these issues one needs to step back and consider these instances in conjunction with the concept that Islam is not a monolith. There are many different Muslim women who cover or who don’t all over the world and their specific reasoning and circumstances can’t be conflated with one another. Ibtihaj Muhammad exemplified this when discussing her fight against islamophobic perspectives: “It’s almost like how could you not see that Muslims are like any other group, you know? We are conservatives and we are liberals, there are women who cover and women who don’t. There are African-American Muslims, there are white Muslims, there are Arab Muslims. There are so many different types of Muslims. There are so many Muslim countries that have had women as their heads of state. Those are things that I want people to be aware of.” (Howard 2016)
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In order to better understand the role of the hijab in the grand scheme of Islam and in the identity of Muslim women, we interviewed four Muslim women Rice students on the subject of covering.
Interviewee Background:
Zulfa Quadri is a junior cognitive science major at Rice University. She’s a member of McMurtry College and a worker at the Rice Women’s Resource Center.
Yasmin Khalfe is a senior biochemistry and cell biology major at Rice University. She’s a member of Wiess College where she serves as President. Yasmin enjoys volunteering with Camp Kesem and The Ronald McDonald House, serving families affected by illnesses
Yasmine Rahmat is a junior Mathematical Economic Analysis and Policy Studies double major at Rice University. She’s a member of Wiess College and proud Muslim American woman.
Iqra Dada is a senior at Computer Science major at Rice University and member of Duncan College. She is the president of the Muslim Student Association and a leader of Rice Code College, a student led STEM mentorship program for middle school students.
What was your religious experience like growing up (i.e. religious household, non-religious, etc.)?
Zulfa Quadri: “I grew up in a very traditional Sunni Islamic family. My dad is an Islamic scholar, and my mom has a similar education. My dad travels around the world doing conferences about Islam, so growing up religion was very huge influence. It bled into everything, whether that’s my attitudes on education, music or food. I learned how to pray and read Arabic (and the Quran) when I was like, four years old. . Learned Islamic law at very young (started reading at like 4!). Ever since I was seven years old and till I was a junior in high school, I was enrolled in Sunday school. Also, my dad was Chairman at a local mosque, so we were all very involved in the religious community.
Yasmin Khalfe: “My parents are pretty religious – actually, my mom is Shia Muslim and my dad is Sunni, but I grew up relatively American. I went to Sunday school, went to Mosque growing up. I think we saw the more of the personal side to religion, not as much the rituals. My mom is very religious, but you wouldn’t be able to tell that immediately, because her religion is very personal to her.”
Yasmine Rahmat: “My family was very religious, very culturally Islamic. I didn’t always understand why, but it was like you do certain things at certain times, eat certain things, and pray together. I didn’t always know exactly why I did everything, but we did almost everything together, and that was the appeal. I ended up having my Muslim friends and my non-Muslim friends, and I usually had them split into separate groups in my mind. My parents taught me a lot [about Islam], and I think I got a good foundation in the everyday things we do in Islam, but I lacked the “why” (like, why do we pray, why do I believe in God). That’s something I didn’t really know until now – that I pray because I want change or really believe in something. I didn’t really understand before. My parents instilled the urgency, like if I don’t pray or if I don’t do this, I feel different. But, I think that I started exploring the “why” more on my own in college.
Iqra Dada: The thing about Islam is that there is culturally religious and actually religious. My parents, specifically my mom, were very culturally Muslim. Like she wore a dupatta (Indian scarf) over her head growing up, but didn’t really think about the strict rules of Islam. They didn’t read the Quran or know Arabic; they didn’t really seek knowledge [about Islam]. When my parents moved here, they experienced the American Muslim culture, which is very binary. Either you go to the mosque and are very strict, or you find the other people who aren’t very strict, don’t often go to mosque and fit in more with Western society. For them it’s mostly about just believing. So when my parents moved here, my mom became a lot more religious, and she started wearing hijab. I went to private Islamic school till 2nd grade and went to Arabic school. Islam basically was my biggest extracurricular activity. They really wanted us to be part of the Islamic culture.
IF you cover, when did you start covering and why do you cover/not cover? What factors do you think go into the decision?
ZQ: The earliest I remember covering was when I was 10, right before middle school. My mom wears a full burqa, and she was the first woman I saw covered. Women on both sides of the family both cover and not cover, so I was exposed to differences growing up. It was a communal thing, being Muslim in the most public way possible. I knew that we did it for God, that [if I covered] I’d get blessings. My parents were very encouraging and didn’t force me in any particular way. I remember thinking that this is like a new identity that I’ve created for myself. I like that the first thing that people saw about me was that I was Muslim, because I’m really proud of it. When I came college it became a routine, and I wasn’t really thinking about why I wore it. It just was habit, so I began to question that: was I really wearing it for God…was I really wearing it for myself?”
YK: The only time that I cover is during prayer, like in a Mosque. It’s a sign of respect, just something you do when you pray or engage in something religious. I think I don’t cover because that’s what I grew up with. My mom doesn’t cover, but she dresses modestly – she doesn’t wear shorts, or sleeveless tops. But I grew up pretty American – I played on sports teams that required shorts and other things. I think it comes down to personal choice; my parents were never like “you have to do this.”
YR: I’ve never covered outside of the mosque. I have considered it a couple times because covering up would give me a different identity as a Muslim, but personally I don’t think that I am in the right place in my spiritual journey to start wearing a hijab. I wouldn’t cover just for the sake of covering. It shouldn’t be someone else or society telling me to cover. Also, covering allows people to immediately recognize me as a Muslim. There’s a lot of pressure there, and I feel that I’m not yet ready to withstand that pressure. So, if I covered up too early [in my life] it might have a detrimental effect on the strength of my spirituality.
ID: I started my first day of middle school. The Islamic ruling is that you start after you become a woman, after you start your period. It’s an awkward thing to talk about but, yeah. In general, I think you cover when you think you’ve become a lady and feel more modest. I’ve always been pretty conservative. If it’s in the Quran, I do it or I try my hardest to do it. In the Quran, when they said to cover, I believe they mean it literally. I think somethings are less literal – it’s an old text and that makes a lot of things interpretable. But somethings are very laid out. I guess that can be seen as inconsistent, but that’s how I look at it.
How do others (family, religious community, ethnic community, at Rice) react to whether you cover or not?
ZQ: People generally find me more approachable. When I walk down the street, I am definitely less noticed, lie I’m a part of society now. I don’t know if I necessarily like that. I think, when I physically uncover something, it shows that I’m revealing a part of myself, so other people trust me more. Also, I look more normal, like normally American. And although it might not explicitly thought, it’s kind of an implicit association.
YK: I have family members who do wear hijab, and I have members that don’t. There are people, who tend to be more traditional, who think it’s not right for a Muslim women to not cover up. So, I sometimes feel less religious when I’m around Muslims. But on the other side, when I’m with my non-Muslim friends, I feel very religious.
YR: Here at Rice, I think the MSA is very accepting of the wide variety of cultures and the different ways that everyone chooses to express their devotion to Islam. There is an MSA girls group chat where we schedule a lot of activities for group bonding, and they especially have been very accepting of everyone and their decision to cover or not to cover up. I think this is best shown by their inclusivity and how they reach out to every member, regardless of what they dress like or how involved they are in the MSA. As for my family, they see modesty very differently in America than they would back home in Indonesia, where most women wear hijabs. My mom sees modesty as not standing out and bringing attention to yourself by the way you dress, and because people wear less here than they do back home, she understands my choice and desire to dress similarly. Because I wouldn’t stand out wearing shorts and a tank in this society in a way that I definitely would in Indonesia, modesty takes on a different face.
ID: [When I started wearing the Hijab] I felt that everyone was wearing it and well, I thought “I’m a lady now,” so I should wear it. Also, I thought, since it was the first day of middle school, I could start with a new identity at a new school. I think there are some stereotypes [of hijabis], that you are aloof or unfriendly or cold. But, people at rice are so weird about the hijab. They love it. There is no place I go where I am so loved for wearing a Hijab. In the public, I think there is a certain aspect of respect that I’m given because I’m covered. I don’t experience cat-calling or men hitting on me, compared to other women. And, kind of surprisingly, it’s not just Muslim men not engaging, but all men seem to understand that I’m not open for them to flirt or hit on me.
Do you think that Muslim women who choose to cover get different reactions from people (or are viewed differently) than women who choose not to? If so, how are the reactions different and why do you think this is?
ZQ: Yes! There’s a very gendered thing about it. When Muslim women cover themselves, their Muslim community will embrace them, because every “good” Muslim will eventually cover. But that’s not even true, as not everyone who covers is very religious. I’m a firm believer that everything is a personal thing. I feel more religious now not wearing the hijab than I did last year when I only wore the hijab. I’m going to be honest, my parents don’t really support [not wearing the hijab]. That has to do with the misconception that covering is directly correlated to your religiosity, whereas I’m doing it to uncover* my religiosity even more.
YK: I definitely think covered Muslim women are perceived differently, because it’s so obvious. Anyone can see it; it’s a part of your faith that you can’t keep to yourself. Also, current media and narrative casts a negative light on Muslims in general, so it reflects on those who are most outwardly “Muslim.”
YR: I believe that when you wear the hijab, your actions are more scrutinized just because you’re more easily identifiable as Muslim. In this way, I think that there is a certain expectation by society to act in a certain way. I think it makes some people uncomfortable to see a hijabi acting in a way that doesn’t fit their perception of what a Muslim woman should be. So if a Muslim woman who doesn’t cover up and acts differently, it’s easier to stomach because she doesn’t wear a hijab and already doesn’t fit this preconceived image. Covering up is a small part of being Muslim. It’s hard for me, harder than a lot of things, but it’s still just a small part of a big religion. Islam is a relationship between you and god, and no one knows that better than God. Because it is harder for me, something that I can struggle towards, I see covering as a big step in my jihad and in my spiritual journey. But covering up may not mean the same thing to everyone.
ID: There’s a serious amount of respect in Muslim community for hijabi community, because of the recent tough times. No one wants to be known as a Muslim right now. So if you can be looked at and not immediately be profiled as Muslim or ethnic, then you don’t have to deal with nonsense that comes with it. Sometimes women who don’t wear hijab aren’t really seen as Muslim, they could just be a random south Asian person. So, if I am on a bus, likelihood of some rando sitting next to me versus her is lower. It’s basically a social experiment that you are going through. It’s a little bit of invisibility, but you are also very visible. It’s a weird duo – they know I’m there, but act like they don’t see me.
The hijab is often associated with the narrative of Muslim women being oppressed, how do you deal with this stereotype in your everyday life (/does this ever come up)?
ZQ: Some people have said “are you taking it off because you are forced to wear it?” And I say no, I make sure to correct that. I think there is a small – very, very, small- minority of Muslim women that are actually oppressed or forced to cover. But no, Muslim women do not need saving. Being traditional or conservative is not backwards, it’s not anti-feminist. Being able to choose who gets to see my body or who sees my hair, is empowering to some women.
YK: I can think of my own mom. She grew up in Iran back during pre-revolution. So, everything she knew until 18 was very western (girls in shorts for instance). So when the revolution happened, it was very difficult for her to adjust to the mandatory hijab. I personally don’t think mandatory covering is good.
YR: I understand the perception, because they see it as something that is forced on women, sometimes not only physically, but as an unsaid social dogma. The way I see it is that it’s a choice. When you take choice away, it’s oppressive.
ID: When I come to Rice, everyone wants to celebrate my hijab, to celebrate diversity. But, sometimes I feel like people want to show support for me because they think that I am oppressed. I am empowering myself. I don’t need anyone. I think there are lots of women out there that are being oppressed, oppressed on what they can and can’t wear. Those countries face a lot of oppression, and I don’t want to dismiss that. But at the same time, in America, I don’t think that’s the case. In general I think 90% wear by choice. Some young girls wear due to social pressure, but I wouldn’t say it’s abusive or oppression. It’s more like, “oh, my parents would be mad at me.” So, I guess it’s a form of emotional oppression, but I wouldn’t compare that to abroad. You should know Muslims are all over, and we aren’t all oppressed.
What is your perception of the relationship between female sexuality and Islam (in the context of clothing)?
ZQ: I’m not going to say all Islamic communities do this, but to some, female sexuality is not a thing that exists until you get married, but then suddenly (clap) you have it! It’s hard to navigate the Islamic text because, if you take tradition, it says pretty blatantly that you have to save yourself for marriage that sex should be saved for your husband. But I think we live in a modern society. The women who choose to be sexual should be accepted and the women who choose not to should be accepted as well. As long as Muslim and non-Muslim societies support her, then that’s the ideal.
YK: People might look at hijabis and think that they don’t have sexuality. I don’t think that the religion says that you shouldn’t have sexuality, so I think the subversion of that is more political or cultural. When it comes to religion part, I think a lot of it is keeping it private. I think also the hijab comes off as protection from sex before marriage or hiding from sex, but what I think it should be is their own personal sign of devotion.
YR: I never grew up being taught that sex is bad. But it is hard to deal with it – there are times where I would take pride in my sexuality as a female but then I would think, “oh is that something God would want me to think?”, because often that kind of thinking can lead to thoughts of vanity and seeking attention — things I know are bad. It’s hard to find a balance between just feeling good about yourself, about your appearance, and your sexuality as a female, and avoiding vanity.
ID: I feel like a lot of Muslims have a stifling understanding of Islam. They believe that Islam is completely non-sexual. The idea is that you just place limits on yourself. I think the hijab in essence is a way to show that you are not interested in doing anything before marriage. By wearing a hijab, you are holding out for someone in hopes of pleasing god. It’s saying that I value god over my sexuality in this moment. But, Islam is extremely open to talking about sex. There’s a lot of literature, in the Hadith, You would never think that there would be text in the Hadith talking about foreplay, but it’s there. Islam is a very sexual religion. Unfortunately, that is often covered up and people don’t want to talk about it, mostly because of the conservative culture that we are ingrained with and this super-conservative or super-liberal binary. “I’m super American so I could never do arranged marriage. I’m trying to find a balance of Islam and my Western values where I can manage somewhat-dating while still maintaining a certain level of purity/modesty.”
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So, what role does the Hijab play in the identity of Muslim women?
The practice of covering or not covering, in itself, is a clear example of how Islam is not a monolith. Considering the various narratives of Muslim women at Rice, wearing a Hijab, or other forms of covering, is only one aspect of all that can be included in identifying oneself as a Muslim. A Muslim woman is not labeled ‘Muslim’ based solely off of her decision to cover or not, or at least she shouldn’t be. Ultimately, covering is a personal choice. It is important for both Muslims and non-Muslims to acknowledge that everyone has different convictions, and modesty is no exception. Unfortunately, few people do, and consequently, the “good Muslim bad Muslim” binary is so prevalent in American society. Within the Muslim community, a “good” Muslim is one who covers and the more one does cover, the better. The case is the opposite for non-Muslim communities; covering makes one a “bad” Muslim, while more “good/liberal” Muslims are more accepted and encouraged in American society.
Should a Muslim woman, or any woman, have to justify their decision to cover or be expected to explain the extent of their covering?
Wearing a Hijab, like all things, has its pros and cons. Muslim women often feel the need to explain to others why they cover (or don’t), in an attempt to denounce the popular assumption that covering is a sign of oppression, when in reality, most Muslim women choose to cover and consider it “empowering”. What is even more troubling is that women who choose not to cover, after having previously covered, in the words of interviewee, Zulfa, are seen as “going after men”.
This introduces a topic that stood out in the interviews of Muslim women at Rice, sexuality. How does covering influence people’s perceptions and assumptions about the sexuality of Muslim women? According to one interviewee, in Islam, a woman’s sexuality simply does not exist outside of marriage, which can be problematic in today’s society, where sexuality is a hot topic and traditional values about sex are not as present as they once were. The point to make here is that it is unfair to Muslim women, especially younger Muslim women, to associate their sexuality, with their personal decision to cover or not. Furthermore, today more than ever, attention to sexuality is more culturally relevant than it is religiously.
To assume that all young women who cover have no sexuality is not only inaccurate, but reinforces the widely-accepted (and wrong) view that Islam is a monolith. This is done through clumping all Muslim women into one group, in which affiliation is based on covering. As stated earlier, covering is only one aspect of all that encompasses a Muslim woman’s identity, and the diverse interpretations surrounding modesty and the veil allow us to grasp just how rich in diversity Islam as a whole is. From the four interviewees of Rice students alone, we can see how every Muslim woman’s experience is different, and that cannot be ignored.
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